src: fix live lock between environments with blocked requests

[IlyasShabi]

LockManager::ProcessQueue() woke every other env with any pending request, even when none of those requests could make progress. Two envs with requests blocked on the same resource would wake each other back and forth forever.

This PR will wake another env only when one of its requests can make progress:

• the request is grantable or
• it uses ifAvailable, which must run its callback with null when the resource is unavailable.

Fixes #62644

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 50.00000% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 90.07%. Comparing base (f9ab994) to head (358368a).
⚠️ Report is 4 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/node_locks.cc	50.00%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_locks.cc	75.14% <50.00%> (-2.08%)	⬇️

... and 29 files with indirect coverage changes

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/76841/

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